Aspies are always trying to join in the fun

An Aspie ("Aspie" is a nickname for those with Asperger's Syndrome, a perception quirk that leads to social dysfunction) - or at least this Aspie, anyway - is often trying to figure out their relationship with all those non-Aspies out there ruling the world. I've now lots of decades to ponder this question, and a general pattern seems to be sifting out of the murk.

Aspies are always trying to join in the fun, but they just don't quite get it; and soon are not invited to play. And Aspies need a mate perhaps even more than the average Non-Aspie does, so the women can also easily play tricks on the Aspies who are desperate for a mate.

As for non-Aspies, they tend to regard Aspies as nuisances; partly because they seem to be whizzes at schoolwork, making the non-Aspies look less good; and somehow Aspies seem to often be in the wrong place seeing things going on and can't be counted on to not say too much about it; but most of all they are irritating because Aspies just don't know their place, no matter how much hazing they get.

Aspies are useful to non-Aspies, however, because they are easily set up to take the rap for the mischief non-Aspies enjoy doing in their endless games of conflict to show who is better than whom (a subject quite mysterious to Aspies.) That shifts the blame off of the wrongdoers while also getting society to eliminate the Aspie nuisance at same time; and the non-Aspies are thus home free, another win. Another value the Aspie sometimes is, as being a natural source of creative unusual good ideas; so secretly watching the Aspie long enough, the non-Aspies can get ideas for starting new businesses or products, without having to pay for the ideas or even acknowledge the source.

So, now looking back from my senior status, what I can say is, that the women were absolutely delightful, the few that chose me for fun but for much too short a while; and I feel sad that my creative ideas for helping civilization, such as the Pull-Band Commute, Centristation and KESTS to GEO (these are benign ideas that tend to be too far off mainstream that they are out of most people's change-comfort zone), were not noticed enough by the non-Aspies, who apparently were too engrossed in playing their garrulous games of pin-their-crimes-on-the-Aspie to notice that which could have saved their good living ways in the near future.